• How Soon Should You F*ck After Meeting A Person?

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  • How Soon Should You F*ck After Meeting A Person?
  • Posted by: Lalanii, June 3, 2015
  • Unlike the movies or the adage I feel like I've known you forever, people are cruelhearted and atrocious. People have demoniac motives and at the excruciating risk of sounding like a Dear Diary episode when her rainbow was enough I am hell-bent (lol!) on my search for happiness.



    What does it say on the Lululemon mantra? "The search for happiness is the source of all unhappiness." Yes. Like that.



    I also believe life is super short.



    You wanna f*ck, f*ck.



    But here are my thoughts on it.



    Everyone makes their own choices.I feel like today connection just isn't enough. Catch eyes at the bar, swoon a few hours. Or, find out the friend is a friend of a friend of a friend. Trust level rises. Blehh. However it goes, connection is as dependable as reading the novel with the twisted ending. How many times have we heard of someone who was not who they posed as? I think Katy said it best in Real




    Why'd you want to have sex with me? To have a f*cking adventure? What was I supposed to be? Your one-night-f*cking stand? I'm every woman's adventure, damn you, and I don't want to be yours. I want to be your f*cking REAL. You get that? If I f*ck you, I want you to belong to me. To be mine.

    ― Katy Evans, Real




    And if it takes one year, fine. If you sleep together after a week of dilly~dallying, that's fine, ah the same night, knock your socks off, ha. Just be sure, you aren't going strictly off connection, because the majority of the population will tell you what you want to hear, and the other half will promise to be everything you never knew you wanted.



    If I had my way, Bromberg is the truth, lol, that and I like to cuddle, wear pastels, and chew pink bubblegum.






    Let's face it, you're not a spend the night kind of guy, and I'm not a one-night stand kind of girl.

    ― K. Bromberg, Driven




    Now I'm not one to fall into the 90 day rule such as in Steve Harvey's Act Like a Lady, Think Like A Man, because it treats sex like a "treat" instead of an important mutual expression of feelings or desires, sometimes both, but I do feel women and men should wait out their physical playcations with people they actually care about, until they have more than blotches of black outs and remnants of their libatious nights. Maybe, a bit more than that? We can hope.



    Perhaps, they might even know their counterpart's mother's last name, which is not to say their decision won't still be premature or ill fated, but is to say, if for no other reason - maybe some anticipation will build, while the comfort levels rise.



    Have sex when you want. As soon as you want as much as you want, but be certain the decisions you make will make you a happier person, after all this is the end game.



    Your thoughts?


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